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Fast, discreet shipping worldwide. Eligible orders over $119 ship free across North America, and eligible orders over $229 ship free internationally.* Every package arrives in plain, unbranded packaging.
Last updated June 23, 2026
Free shipping
We keep it simple. Eligible orders over $119 ship free anywhere in North America, and eligible orders over $229 ship free to the rest of the world.* The benefit is applied automatically, and your cart always confirms whether your order qualifies.
*Free shipping applies to eligible orders only. A small number of oversized items, such as beds and large furniture, are excluded, and eligibility can change. Your cart always confirms whether free shipping applies.
Discreet packaging and billing
Privacy is built into every order. Packages ship in a plain box or mailer with nothing on the outside to reveal what is inside or where it came from, and your billing statement shows only XR LLC 714-907-1040. If you want an extra layer of privacy, we recommend shipping to a P.O. box or a private mailbox.
Shipping options and speeds
The speeds and carriers available to you depend on the size and weight of your order and your destination. You will see every option and its cost at checkout, including expedited choices where available.
International and worldwide shipping
We ship worldwide to 164 countries, with the same discreet packaging on every order. Eligible international orders over $229 ship free.* International customers also have a statutory right of withdrawal on most orders; see our EU Right of Withdrawal page for how it works.
See all 164 countries we ship to
- Albania
- Algeria
- Andorra
- Angola
- Antigua and Barbuda
- Argentina
- Armenia
- Australia
- Austria
- Azerbaijan
- Bahamas
- Bangladesh
- Barbados
- Belgium
- Belize
- Benin
- Bhutan
- Bolivia
- Bosnia and Herzegovina
- Botswana
- Brazil
- Brunei
- Bulgaria
- Burkina Faso
- Cabo Verde
- Cambodia
- Cameroon
- Canada
- Chad
- Chile
- China
- Colombia
- Comoros
- Congo - Brazzaville
- Costa Rica
- Cote d'Ivoire
- Croatia
- Cuba
- Cyprus
- Czechia
- Denmark
- Djibouti
- Dominica
- Dominican Republic
- Ecuador
- Egypt
- El Salvador
- Equatorial Guinea
- Eritrea
- Estonia
- Eswatini
- Ethiopia
- Fiji
- Finland
- France
- Gambia
- Georgia
- Germany
- Ghana
- Greece
- Grenada
- Guatemala
- Guinea
- Guinea-Bissau
- Haiti
- Honduras
- Hungary
- Iceland
- Iran
- Ireland
- Israel
- Italy
- Jamaica
- Japan
- Jordan
- Kazakhstan
- Kiribati
- Kyrgyzstan
- Laos
- Latvia
- Lesotho
- Liechtenstein
- Lithuania
- Luxembourg
- Madagascar
- Malawi
- Malaysia
- Maldives
- Mali
- Malta
- Marshall Islands
- Mauritania
- Mauritius
- Mexico
- Micronesia
- Moldova
- Monaco
- Mongolia
- Montenegro
- Morocco
- Mozambique
- Myanmar
- Namibia
- Nauru
- Nepal
- Netherlands
- New Zealand
- Nicaragua
- North Korea
- North Macedonia
- Norway
- Oman
- Pakistan
- Palau
- Panama
- Papua New Guinea
- Paraguay
- Peru
- Philippines
- Poland
- Portugal
- Romania
- Rwanda
- Saint Kitts and Nevis
- Saint Lucia
- Saint Vincent and the Grenadines
- Samoa
- San Marino
- Sao Tome and Principe
- Senegal
- Serbia
- Seychelles
- Sierra Leone
- Singapore
- Slovakia
- Slovenia
- Solomon Islands
- South Africa
- South Korea
- Spain
- Sri Lanka
- Suriname
- Sweden
- Switzerland
- Syria
- Tajikistan
- Tanzania
- Timor-Leste
- Tonga
- Trinidad and Tobago
- Tunisia
- Turkey
- Turkmenistan
- Tuvalu
- Uganda
- United Arab Emirates
- United Kingdom
- United States
- Uruguay
- Uzbekistan
- Vanuatu
- Venezuela
- Vietnam
- Zambia
Tracking your order
Once your order ships, tracking appears in your account, and guests receive a shipment email with a tracking link. For step-by-step help, visit our Track Your Order page.
Common questions
How much is shipping?
Shipping cost depends on your destination, and the available speeds and carriers are based on the size and weight of your order. Free shipping is available on eligible orders over $119 across North America and on eligible international orders over $229.* Your cart shows the exact options and cost before you check out.
How fast will my order ship?
We offer a range of shipping speeds, with the exact options based on your order's weight and destination. You will see everything available to you at checkout, including any expedited options.
Is my order shipped discreetly?
Always. Every order ships in a plain box or mailer with no logos, branding, or product information on the outside, and your billing statement shows only XR LLC 714-907-1040. For extra privacy, you can ship to a P.O. box or a private mailbox.
Which countries do you ship to?
We ship worldwide to 164 countries. A small number of destinations are excluded due to carrier limits and trade restrictions, and any excluded destination is shown at checkout.
How do I track my order?
Tracking is in your account, and guests receive a shipment email with a tracking link. See our Track Your Order page for help.
Still need help?
Our California-based customer care team is here for you. Call toll free at 1-866-4MY-BDSM in the US or +1-714-907-1040 internationally, email info@extremerestraints.com, or use live chat.