BDSM Starter Sets and Bondage Kits: What You Need to Get Started

New to kink and BDSM? Bondage kits are great for beginners to try it out!

  • Blindfolds enhance the senses by shutting off their sight; they have to listen and feel more attentively.

  • Mouth gags cause them to listen more, satisfy oral fixation, and cause their mouth to get wet with drool.

  • Paddles and slappers are for impact play and can both excite and arouse them.

  • Ticklers excite the senses and are a sensory delight!

  • Finally, restraints help put them in a submissive state of mind,and can enhance orgasms. Bed restraints in particular wrap underneath a mattress so you can tie them to the bed even without having a bedpost.

The simplicity of these kits makes them great for bedroom bondage or overnight stays! No dungeon or fancy furniture required!

What Are Some Common BDSM and Kink Activities

Before bringing out the BDSM kit, have a talk outside of the bedroom about what you both are open to. Negotiate desires, know what it looks and sounds like when your partner isn't feeling comfortable or wants to stop, and discuss consent.

Once that's out of the way, you can get into the juicy and exciting stuff like edging, impact play, sensation play and rope play!

  • Rope play is a form of sensual restraint that involves intricate knotwork. Tie up your partner with rope so they are bound while you use tools like the tickler or your hands to stimulate them while blindfolded or gagged! Don't want to learn to tie ropes? Use leather or PU faux leather restraints like wrist and ankle cuffs!

  • Sensation play focuses on exploring different ways you can make your partner feel using touch, and it yields incredible pleasure! It's also a great way to warm up for more intense things such as impact play.

  • Impact play is great for increasing circulation, exciting the senses and building trust. A good paddling, flogging or spanking can arouse them and is often a great precursor to sex!

  • Finally, if you want to engage in sexual acts without rushing to the finish line, try out edging! Edging is when you or your partner get right to the edge of your limit and almost orgasm or ejaculate and then abruptly stop to allow yourself to calm down. After doing this several times in a row, building up and then pausing, it eventually leads to incredibly powerful orgasms that are unforgettable when you finally go over the edge!