About Us

For more than 20 years, Extreme Restraints has been the trusted name in bondage and BDSM. We are one of the largest BDSM and fetish superstores in the world, shipping discreetly from California to 164 countries, with more than 63,000 reviews and a 4.5 out of 5 star rating.

Selection

We carry one of the largest selections of restraints and fetish gear anywhere, from leather and metal cuffs, spreader bars, collars, gags, and hoods to rope and shibari supplies, impact toys, electrosex equipment, medical play tools, sensory deprivation gear, and chastity devices, plus hundreds of trusted brands.

Value

Our customers come back for the best prices, the best sales, and the best promotions online, backed by free shipping across North America on eligible orders over $119 and free worldwide shipping on eligible orders over $229.*

Service

Our California-based customer care team knows the catalog and the lifestyle, and is available by phone, email, and live chat. Whether you are new to the scene or have explored it for decades, we are here to help you shop with confidence.

Discreet and secure

Every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging, your billing statement shows only XR LLC 714-907-1040, and checkout is secure and private.

*Free shipping applies to eligible orders only. A small number of oversized items, such as beds and large furniture, are excluded, and eligibility can change. Your cart always confirms whether free shipping applies.