Happy Holidays from eXtremeRestraints!
This year, we want to ensure that all the folks who didn't make it on the nice list have everything they need to make the new year just as naughty. To give you a head start, we've created a BDSM Advent Calendar with 25 days of kinky celebration.
Since you're so bad (we know you eat dessert first), go ahead and customize this list to fit your needs. It's always interesting to try something new, but if it's on your Hard No's list, switch it for something else you've always wanted to try. While many of these are designed for partner play, all of them can be incorporated in your solo fantasies.
Make sure you plan ahead - don't get caught without a collar on day 10 and, if it's your first time, you might be shocked by how much you love electrosex on day 23! We have a ton of great deals for the holiday season to help you satisfy all your curiosities.
December 1st: Slip a blindfold over your eyes or your partner's to add an element of mystery to your sensual activities. Blindfolds help to build anticipation, while the loss of sight can make your other senses more acute. Every whisper will be amplified and every touch will be heightened. Additionally, blindfolds are a great way to build confidence, allowing you to relax into a scene without fear of looking silly.
December 2nd: Explore some of your most irresistible erogenous zones: nipples! Lick, suck, bite, and pinch. Try nipples toys that do the work for you! Do you like a little pain with your pleasure? Discover the delicious pressure of nipple clamps, or even magnets that fight against your flesh to be near one another. Try out a pair of nipple suckers that draw your little nubs inside, engorging them with sensitivity.
December 3rd: Give oral sex a make-over with enticing elements of excitement. Try a blowjob with no hands or cunnilingus from behind. Give that booty some extra attention. Add an oral sex vibrator to make your pucker pulse. A flavored lube will keep you between your partner's thighs for longer, lapping up their sex with greater enthusiasm than ever before.
December 4th: It's cuffing season! Bust out the wrist restraints and get those pesky hands out of your way while you peruse your partner's pretty body. A little light bondage will turn an ordinary hump-day into a naughty night to remember. Tie them to the bedframe with some sturdy rope, or fasten a pair of handcuffs behind their back during doggy-style. Add a set of ankle cuffs to kick things up a notch!
December 5th: Bring out your favorite vibrator, or try a new one - tonight is all about buzzing bliss! Use the vibe for foreplay and during sex, on yourself and on your partner. Male and female bodies can both appreciate vibration, which attracts circulation to an area to enhance sensitivity. Experience the thrilling thrum against nipples, cock head, clit, scrotum, labia, anus, and take a dip inside.
December 6th: Make an impact Friday night with a little pleasure, pain, and punishment. Spanking can release endorphins, temporarily make the brain function differently, and increase blood flow to the affected region of the body (ass, thighs, breasts, etc), enhancing sensitivity. Give your hand a break and discover the sensations of other impact play tools, such as crops, floggers, paddles, and more!
December 7th: Get dressed up for a night at home! Don your favorite lingerie or surprise your partner with some fetish clothing, like a corset, harness, body stocking, or jock strap. Deliver a mouth-watering performance with a stripper pole, or bring a role play fantasy to life with a tail plug and hood. Tonight is a night for teasing and pleasing.
December 8th: Get some peace and quiet on Sunday when you shut your bratty partner up with a gag! If it's their first time, a breathable ball gag can make the experience more comfortable. Otherwise, try something new! Medical-style gags, ring gags, bit gags, and penis gags are just a few ways you can take your quiet time to the next level. (Don't worry, you'll still be able to hear every moan and whimper through them).
December 9th: Put on a show for your partner while they put on a show for you! Masturbate across from each other, upping the ante with the use of vibrators and strokers that add an extra element of excitement. Mutual masturbation gives you an opportunity to show your partner exactly how you like to be touched, while enjoying the satisfaction of being turned on just looking at each other.
December 10th: Take control with a collar and leash tonight! Indulge your puppy play fantasies with your good dog or bad bitch. Not feeling the K9 vibe? Turn your slut into a slave and allow them to serve you, yanking them close whenever you need a little extra affection. A simple collar and leash (or a more sophisticated set) can completely transform the mood of a sexual experience, instantly shifting the power balance.
December 11th: Time to switch things up a bit! Explore a different side of yourself by trying on a new role. Doms become subs, slaves become Masters, Owners become pets, and so on. Swapping places with your partner can give you further insight into your own sexuality and theirs, helping you be a better partner when you revert back to your normal roles. If it makes you nervous, break out that blindfold again!
December 12th: Explore the back door today! Work within your comfort level to discover new depths of anal pleasure. Start out with a deep clean from a CleanStream enema, then move onto analingus with your partner, or maybe even a vibrating butt plug. The new Rimmers line allows you to enjoy both at the same time! Those who haven't tried anal before (female AND male), now is your time!
December 13th: Things have been a little too easy up until this point, haven't they? It's Friday the 13th and you're not getting lucky today! Orgasm denial is about the power dynamic (having complete control over your partner's pleasure), enjoying the journey (focusing on foreplay for the duration of your play), and the ultimate reward (the enhanced ecstasy when you finally are allowed to achieve orgasm). Spend the day edging with your partner, or put them in a chastity device. Whatever you do - don't let them cum!
December 14th: Yesterday was hard, wasn't it? It's Saturday and time for your reward! But if it seems too good to be true, it's because it probably is. Today one partner will take control with the power of pleasure in Forced Orgasm. Push the limits of ecstasy with a wand massager like the Thunderstick or an intense vibrating stroker. After you've made them cum once, do it again and again until they can't take it anymore!
December 15th: Focus on penetrative pleasure with an emphasis on the G-spot or P-spot, depending on the equipment you're working with! A curved finger, G-spot vibe, or prostate massager directed upwards towards the front of the body will give the best access to that secret sweet spot. Add vibration to increase circulation to the area, creating greater sensitivity. For the female body, see if you can achieve a squirting orgasm. For the male body, try to milk that prostate for an anal-only orgasm!
December 16th: Switch things up again! No, you don't have to swap roles this time (unless you liked it). Check the Kama Sutra, a magazine, or just browse the web for some new sex positions you would like to try. None of us are getting any younger, so add a positioning aid like a doggy-style strap, sex pillow, sling, or even swing for easier access to those sweet spots! Sex furniture is truly the gift that keep on giving.
December 17th: You broke out those wrist restraints way back on day 4; now take bedroom bondage to the next level with a little more heavy-duty restraints. Try a system of bed straps that slides under your mattress, a spreader bar, a hogtie, or an armbinder. The feeling of helplessness will change the atmosphere of your experience, heightening every caress, pinch, smack, and thrust. Don't forget about aftercare when you're done!
December 18th: Stretch your limits with a large insertion! Your body is capable of accommodating more than you would think, so why not explore those boundaries? If fisting is too much (or not enough), pick a dildo or butt plug that is a little larger than what you would normally be comfortable with. Another great option is to add a penis sleeve, allowing you to play with the fantasy of a huge cock with your partner.
December 19th: As we get closer to the 25th and you scramble with some last-minute shopping, take a quiet moment out of your day to write an intimate letter to your partner, detailing a secret erotic fantasy. Maybe it's something you would like to try with them, or it could be the source of dirty talk in the future. Tell them what you would like to do to them, and what you want them to do with you. Put it in a letter if you're feeling romantic, otherwise an email will suffice!
December 20th: Alright, this one may seem like a doozy, but hang in there for a sec. Fucking machines (yes, fucking machines) come in all different sizes, styles, and price points. They can be hand-held or rideable. Some of them will suck a dick, others will thrust rapidly into a hole. Let your partner take control or put on a show for them. Buy within your budget or consider it an investment!
December 21st: Take control remotely. What would a list of kinky sex-capades be without good ol' fashioned remote-controlled panties? These days, there are more choices than ever to make sure you get the seductive stimulation you desire. Get it with or without the panties - wear it vaginally or against your clit. Opt for a remote-controlled butt plug or cock ring instead, if you prefer. Hand the power over to your partner and make them writhe in desperation while they do chores around the house, or even out to dinner or a club!
December 22nd: Experience engorgement and enhanced sensitivity from a pumping device. Make sure you get the appropriate cylinders to use on your nipples, vulva, penis, or even anus! Pumping creates temporary swelling for a larger area to play with, and enhanced tenderness. Imagine working with a huge, hard cock, or penetrating a wet, puffy pussy. Everyone should experience it at least once in their life, and most people will be back for more!
December 23rd: Forget about the Christmas lights - enjoy an electrifying evening of E-stim! Discover shocking new heights of sensation with a Zeus Power-Box and the accessories that pique your interests the most. Send a jolt into your booty with an electrosex butt plug, or make that pussy pulse with a dildo. If you're feeling nervous, a Twilight Violet Wand in a good starter point that offers plenty of control with minimal to moderate zapping power.
December 24th: Relax... it's time for a breather before the big day. Tonight, light the candles, put on the slow jams, and treat your partner to a sensual massage. Your favorite vibrating wand can, believe it or not, also be used for other areas of the body. Release the stress of the holiday season and appreciate your companion. Take your time pampering one another and finish it off with slow love-making.
December 25th: After 24 days of prescribed sexual activity, now it's your turn to create your own adventure. Combine your favorite vibrator with your new bondage gear, or get dressed up in your puppy hood and climb on board your fucking machine for a forced orgasm. Or... remember that letter you wrote last week? Why not bring one (or both) of those fantasies to life? When you get some time alone, give each other a special gift that you'll never forget.
If you've discovered new sexual interests, be sure to carry them with you into the new year and beyond. Those who are in a relationship, be thankful for your open-minded partner. Those who are flying solo this year, be grateful for your own sense of adventure! Lastly, don't be too good next year - you have to make it on the naughty list again!
