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About Us

Due to a passion for the scene, the play, and the people, eXtremeRestraints has been selling a wide variety of popular and niche adult toys since 2000. Along with the classics, we offer products that are unique in design and function to inspire creative use.

Currently, we have shipped over a million packages to loyal customers around the world, who value our quality, discretion, and outstanding customer service.

We are dedicated to giving back to our community, whether through donating to and sponsoring events, or through educational outreach with We’re fortunate to have world-famous adult performer Aiden Starr and BDSM expert Ian Rath host an online kink workshop, joined by a different adult performer each month.

eXtremeRestraints is dedicated to making BDSM—and pleasure—accessible to everyone, regardless of their fetish, experience level, or budget. Pleasure doesn’t discriminate. We hope that our products will help you further explore your desires.

Satisfaction Guarantee

Here at, we understand that returns are sometimes a necessary process when products are purchased online. With this understanding, we are happy to provide our customers with a Satisfaction Guarantee on our entire line of products. Follow this link to learn more about our guarantee.

We would love to hear from you...

Questions, compliments and suggestions are invaluable in helping us serve you better. You can contact us by email using our contact form. If you are inquiring about an order, please include your order number. We are able to reply to most e-mails within 24 hours.

If you would like to speak to a Customer Service Representative, customers in the US can call us toll free at 1-866-4MY-BDSM (1-866-469-2376) ; international customers can call us at 714-907-1040. Our Customer Service Representatives are available to answer questions about a past or present order, tracking information for your order, a product on our website, or general questions regarding our policies.

They are available:

  • Monday-Thursday 8:00am-5:00pm PT (GMT-8)
  • Friday 8:00am-4:30pm PT (GMT-8)

We also have representatives available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week that would be happy to assist you in placing your order online.

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