What is the G-spot?
The reality of the G-spot has been widely debated, but anyone who has experienced a G-spot orgasm will vigorously vouch for its existence. More accurately called the Gräfenberg spot, is a small erogenous zone within the vagina. Sexologists have theorized that it is sensitive in many women because of its relation to the Skene's gland, or female prostate, as well as that it's part of the clitoral network.
Where is the G-spot in women?
While we are most familiar with the small, external nub part of the clitoris, it is actually wishbone-shaped, extending within your body. The G-spot is theorized to be located between the two roots of the clitoris. Because all bodies are different, the precise location of the G-spot can vary from person to person. For most it is about 2-3 inches inside the vaginal opening, on the upper (anterior) wall.
How to find the G-spot:
Use two slightly bent-upwards fingers or a G-spot toy, which will feature a dramatic curve, to slowly penetrate yourself (or your partner). You will notice a texture change, from smooth to bumpy, and increased sensitivity as you reach the right location. Creating arousal will help to swell the area, making it easier to find.
What is the most effective G-spot stimulation?
Using your hooked fingers or a curved G-spot vibe, create a "come hither" motion within your vagina, as though beckoning someone to you. The tips of your fingers or the toy should be facing upward towards your belly-button, stroking against your G-spot. Repeat this motion at varying speeds and pressures until you find what your body responds to best.
How does a G-spot vibrator assist in G-spot stimulation?
Finding the G-spot and delivering a G-spot massage can be difficult for many women due to anatomical restraints such as body proportions, joint fatigue, or cramping. Curved sex toys allow for a more comfortable and wider range of motion. With the addition of vibration, your body can become aroused and blood-flow to the area will increase, which both heightens sensitivity and causes engorgement. With your G-spot enlarged, it will be easier to locate. Furthermore, G-spot vibrators can be used externally before penetration as a great way to 'prime the pump'. Rabbit vibrators even allow you to enjoy both at the same time.