Strapon FAQ:

Can a guy wear a strap-on?
There are many strap-on styles that are compatible with the male body, and some that are specifically designed with men in mind. Most will feature a ring for the penis to go through or a hollow dildo. The reasons for a male-bodied person wanting to wear a strap-on are varied. Some have difficulty getting or maintaining an erection, some want to engage in double penetration, and still others might be interested in chastity play, their penis sheathed while they pleasure their partner.

Can straight guys enjoy penetration?
Pegging, or a man being penetrated by a female partner, is becoming more and more popular in heterosexual relationships. As men continue to discover their prostate, they are realizing that more pleasure is a terrible thing to pass up on. While a finger or prostate massager is easy and exciting, the added element of power-play that strapons offer is often a factor for men who enjoy spicing things up with a strapon.

Do lesbian couples need a strap-on?
Just like individuals, all couples find their own ways to play, and for some, that doesn’t involve girl on girl strap-on penetration at all. However, a strap-on is often an essential in the toy collection of many gay women and trans men. For some, it’s a once-in-a-while accessory to add variety to their sex life, while others may search long and hard for the perfect fit to their sexual identity. In any case, it’s important to have a range trans and lesbian strap-on options so that one can choose the desired size, shape, material, and style. Strapless or harness, lifelike or unrealistic?

Do strap-ons come in different sizes?
Most of the strap-ons we carry have harnesses that can be adjusted to fit a wide range of people, while others have stretchy waistbands. We also offer several plus-sized options in attractive styles. For female-bodied people, there’s the “one-size-fits-all” option of a strapless strap-on if both partners enjoy penetration. It’s always important to look at the measurements of a product before you make a purchase.

What’s the difference between a strap-on and a harness?
A “strap-on” or “strapon” is usually a more general term used to describe the entire appliance of a harness and dildo, or even a strapless strap-on. A strap-on harness is the article that you wear on your body, whether it’s a series of straps in thong or jock style, or an underwear harness. A dildo is generally inserted into the O-ring on the harness, but there are also a variety of strap-ons that have the dildo already built into the harness.

Do strap-ons come with dildos?
Many strap-on sets do include the harness and the dildo. However you can also find harnesses and dildos sold separately so that you can create the perfect combination for your relationship. If you decide to start with a set that includes both, many harnesses have O-rings that allow you to switch out the dildo for any other compatible strap-on dildo with a flared base, that way you can start small and work your way up if you want!

Types of Strap-ons

Strap-On Dildos - These dildos are compatible with most standard harnesses because they have a flared base. Some look just like a real penis, while others are simply phalluses to accomodate the unique fantasies within your relationship. With so many sizes, shape, and materials to choose from, you are sure to find the perfect fit!

Strapless Strap-Ons - Best suited to female-bodied people, these strap-ons allow both partners to experience penetrative pleasure at the same time, whether during pegging or sex without a penis at all. Although these are all technically double-sided dildos, they are different in that they are ergonomically shaped for top and bottom bedroom roles, and can be worn without the extra support of a harness if desired. Explore a variety of shapes, sizes, materials, and sensations within this category.

Hollow Strap-Ons -These strap-ons are great for those who have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection, whether due to medication, illness, injury, age, etc. As many as 52 percent of male-bodied people experience erectile dysfunction in their lifetime, but that doesn’t mean your sex life has to suffer! Hollow strapons are also a great option for D/s relationships in which the Dom or Domme enjoys penetration, but the sub is in chastity! Just put your penis inside and get to work!

Double Penetration Strap-Ons - Explore your double-penetration fantasies with a harness that allows you to either harness two dildos or harness a penis and a dildo! These strapons can be worn on male or female bodies and allow you to play with two shafts. Because of the spacing between the shafts, these double-penetration strap-ons work best with two orifices, whether that means vaginally and anally, or simply two partners at once!

Unique Strap-Ons - These strap-ons are not worn in the traditional way, but allow you to enjoy penetration YOUR way. Experiment with further aspects of power play with your partner when you buckle them into a dildo gag and make them pleasure you! Indulge in anal ecstasy with a butt plug while you are in your harness! Get creative with these distinct and exhilarating strap-on alternatives. traditional blindfolds. Very popular for people experimenting with breath play.