Feeling that delicious tension between surrender and control? Our neck to wrist restraints combine two powerful elements of BDSM play into one irresistible package. Whether you're looking to maintain a specific posture or create that perfect moment of beautiful vulnerability, these restraints invite you to explore power exchange in ways that will leave you breathless.

Find Your Perfect Neck to Wrist Restraint

For the Curious Beginner

If you’re new to restraint play, start with something that feels as good as it looks.

The Neoprene Collar to Wrist Restraint is an ideal first step. The soft, padded material feels great on bare skin and won’t leave marks, even during longer sessions. Velcro closures let you adjust quickly or release in seconds, which is perfect for building trust while you explore this new sensation together.

What makes it beginner-friendly isn't just the cozy material – it's the psychological comfort of knowing you can ease into the experience. The restraint is firm enough to create that delicious feeling of submission without being intimidating. It's like training wheels for your power exchange journey!

For the Intermediate Explorer

Ready to turn things up? Once you’re confident with the basics, it’s time to try restraints that bring a true BDSM set to your bedroom.

The Coax Collar to Wrist Restraints balance style and function. The sleek PU leather and shiny metal hardware look incredibly sexy, while the padded cuffs keep you comfortable. Standard buckles let you create a secure fit that stays put, even during more intense play.

What we love about these intermediate options is their versatility – use them to enforce a kneeling position for some oral service, or keep your partner's hands front and center where you can watch them squirm with anticipation. These restraints are perfect for those nights when you want to dive deeper into your dominant or submissive side.

For the Intermediate Explorer

For those who have moved beyond exploration into the realm of serious power exchange, nothing less than premium materials and uncompromising design will do.

The Strict Leather Wrist to Neck Restraint is built for serious play. Made from genuine leather that becomes softer and more beautiful with time, it features locking buckles for a deep sense of surrender. The behind-the-back design keeps your submissive’s posture straight and removes any chance of touching without permission.

These aren't just restraints – they're instruments of control for those who understand the exquisite dance between dominance and submission. The psychological impact of hearing that lock click shut can send your partner into the deepest levels of subspace, creating scenes of incredible intensity and connection.

A Critical Note on Safe and Consensual Play

Let's get serious for a moment, because your safety is sexier than any restraint we sell.

Consent is Everything

Make sure everyone's on the same page. Talk openly about what you want to try, what's completely off-limits, and where your boundaries lie. Remember that enthusiastic consent is ongoing, and it doesn't stop after you've started playing.

Pro tip: Discuss exactly what you want to do to each other. Don't skip this part!

Safewords are Non-Negotiable

Always, always establish a safeword before using neck to wrist restraints. The classic “Red” for stop everything immediately works well, but also agree on a non-verbal signal. This is crucial since neck restraints can make speaking difficult. Something simple like dropping a squeaky toy or snapping fingers three times works perfectly.

Think your scene is too light to need a safeword? Trust us – even the most experienced players insist on them. It's like wearing a seatbelt – you don't plan on crashing, but you're damn glad it's there if you need it.

Critical Physical Safety Checks

Neck Safety: This is non-negotiable – these restraints should NEVER put pressure on the front of the throat. Period. Keep all tension at the back of the neck, and never, ever use these restraints for pulling or dragging your partner. The collar portion should rest comfortably on the collarbone and back of the neck.

Circulation and Nerves: You should always be able to slip two fingers between the restraint and skin. Too tight? Loosen it immediately. Check in frequently about numbness or tingling in the hands – these are warning signs that should never be ignored. Watch for color changes too – if hands start looking pale or bluish, release the restraints right away.

Emergency Preparedness: Always keep a pair of EMT safety shears close by. These special scissors can cut through any material in an emergency without hurting the wearer. They cost about $10 and could prevent serious injury. This isn’t optional, it’s essential.

Practice Aftercare

When play ends, care begins. Restraint play can be both physical and emotional, leaving partners feeling open and vulnerable. Take time to hold each other, drink water, and talk about the experience. Use lotion on wrists if needed, wrap up in a soft blanket, and remind each other how amazing you are together.

The closeness you feel during aftercare often builds the trust to go even deeper next time. Don’t rush this part. It’s where some of the strongest connection happens.

Ready to discover just how thrilling the perfect balance of control and surrender can be? Browse our collection and find the neck to wrist restraint that calls to your deepest desires. Your next unforgettable night is just a click away.