Why Shop Strap-On Dildos at ExtremeRestraints.com?

Endless Variety, Zero Guesswork

Not sure where to start? Don’t worry, we’ve got you. From slim and beginner-friendly to bold and body-rocking, our strap-on dildos span all shapes, sizes, and sensations. Choose from ultra-realistic silicone dildos with lifelike details, vibrating or thrusting options for extra intensity, or G-spot targeting designs that know exactly where to hit. Looking for a complete set? We’ve got harness-and-dildo bundles too, so you can get started right out of the box.

Body-Safe Materials You Can Trusth

Nothing kills the mood faster than wondering what sketchy chemicals you're putting inside yourself or your partner. Our silicone toys are the popular kids for good reason: they're non-porous, hypoallergenic, and clean up like a dream.

Not feeling silicone? We've got plastic for those who like it firm, and rubber for folks who want a softer touch.

Inclusive Fit, Feel, and Function

No two bodies are alike, and neither are our strap-ons. Our collection includes options with flared bases for use with your favorite harness, double-ended designs for shared penetration, and packer dildos that offer a softer, subtler presence. Pegging, same-sex play, power play, or gender-affirming pleasure. We carry tools for every dynamic.

Beginner-Friendly to Advanced

First time strapping it on? Try a smaller, softer dildo with a slim profile to ease into the experience.

Ready for more? For the veterans among us, we've got toys that thrust, rotate, vibrate, and generally do everything short of making you breakfast the next morning. Use our filters to sort by size, material, or features and find your next bedroom MVP without scrolling for hours.

Discreet Service

We know privacy matters. Your order will arrive in plain, unmarked packaging, and your billing will show no trace of what’s inside.

Buying Guide: How to Choose Your Strap-On

Picking the perfect strap-on is like dating. It helps to know what you're looking for before you commit. Here's how to narrow down the field:

Experience Level

Beginner: Start with something slim (around 1-1.5 inches across) and made of forgiving silicone. Those all-in-one kits with a simple harness and modest dildo are perfect training wheels.

Intermediate/Adventurous: Once comfortable, try adding features (vibration, rotation) or larger sizes for more intensity. Harnesses with firmer straps can allow for bigger thrusting. If pegging is new to you, consider first experimenting with just the dildo (prostate or G-spot plug) before the full harness.

Desired Sensation/Use

• If you or your partner wants clitoral stimulation while penetrating, choose a harness that leaves one strap free (so a toy or clit vibrator can be added). Or pick a vibrating strap-on.
• For g-spot or prostate stimulation, a curved shape is best.
• For sensory play: consider additional features like suction bases (for hands-free solo play) or flared flanges (for anal safety).
• Aesthetics/Role-Play: Color or realism might matter. If you’re exploring a FemDom vibe, a neon, or leather set might appeal. For neutral role-play, a realistic silicone phallus can feel empowering for the giver.

Practical Stuff Nobody Talks About

Lube compatibility: A high-quality lube is crucial. Recommend water-based lubes for silicone toys (silicone lubes can degrade them), or use a condom if you prefer silicone lube.

Harness styles: Underwear-style harnesses feel like, well, underwear. They're comfy and intuitive, but might not give you the control of strap-style harnesses. Those jockstrap or G-string designs let you adjust tension and positioning more precisely, which matters when you're trying to hit just the right spot.

Budget reality: A high-quality lube is crucial. Recommend water-based lubes for silicone toys (silicone lubes can degrade them), or use a condom if you prefer silicone lube.