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How to have Anal Sex

How To Have Anal Sex - Tips and Toys from Extreme Restraints

Do you want to find out how to have anal sex or looking to enhance your anal experience? Here are a few good tips and some advice from the experts At Extreme Restraints.

Anal sex isn't just for gay men, plenty of women and straight men can and do enjoy great anal sex. The anus has plenty of nerve endings and feels really good when stimulated sexually. The man's prostate, or male G-spot, can be stimulated to produce amazing orgasms that can't be compared to normal penile orgasms.

Anal toys are commonly used when you are learning how to have anal sex. Men can get extreme pleasure from butt plugs and anal dildos. Anal toys are a natural and enjoyable addition to sex.

Important Things To Know About Anal Play

  • Lube it or Lose it!
    Lubricant is essential to any anal play. The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does. So, generous amounts of lube are required whenever you are going to stick something up your ass.
  • Start Small.
    If you are learning how to have anal sex, then start with a finger or slender butt plug. You can easily size your anus by slowly inserting fingers, one-by-one, into your butt. The maximum number of fingers you can stick in will give you an idea of how big an object you want to stick in.
  • Make sure that the item you are inserting has a handle or flared base.
    The anus likes to close the asshole and hold things inside the rectum. Once you put something up your ass, you'll want to be able to easily pull it out. Abide by this rule, or you run the risk of being the topic of conversation over coffee at the local ER break room.
  • Avoid long, inflexible anal toys.
    The rectum is curved and it can be painful to push a hard, straight object too far in. All of your longer anal toys should be flexible.

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