This collar is wonderful! It is made very well, strong, yet soft with no chafing of the neck. I am a sub w/o master. I am training my husband of 28 yrs to top. The first 2 times I asked if I could wear it & the third time he told me I needed to put it on. He now puts me in a presentation position as if I was in a dog show, hips tilted up & head held high on all fours to receive his cock wherever he wants it! I love it! I get wet the minute he tells me to get my leash.