i've already written, but i went to that party and i have to tell you. it was a pool party so when i took my pants off to reveal my brass snake people couldn't wait to ask me about it! the women had to know what it was and how it worked and wanted to get them for their men! i gave them all the web address! i loved getting all the attention. it's a great conversation starter! i'll be wearing it to all the "swinging" parties!