When my wife first suggested sounding, I was reluctant. But tried it with common items and it was good, but using this set was amazing. They are so easy to use and feel great (pain and pleasure). I have quickly worked up to the 35 french and plan to get up to the 45. My wife gets so hot and wet doing it, I have enven tried them on her and she loves them. Would recommend to any one thinking of sounding.