I purchased the leather gag with red ball item along with other items to surprise my wife. We are somewhat new to the bondage scene but we are quick students and eager to learn! She has become my submissive and is trained to do just about anything.
I first put on her wrist cuffs and locked them behind her back so she couldn't prevent what was about to happen. Then I put a blind-fold on to keep her guessing what was coming next. I told her that I had 2 surprises for her that night. She can't have the second one unless we did the first one. She may not like one of them. She would LOVE the second one. (I didn't reveal what either secret was.) She agreed with some hesitation.
I quickly put the ball gag in her mouth as she began to object. Her complaints didn't last long! I moved her to the bed and locked in her ankles. Then I undid the arms from her back and re-fastened her spread eagle on the bed using the restraint system (purchased here). At this point she was completely helpless. She couldn't move, see or even speak.
Then I introduced her to the second surprise.... (This part can be found elsewhere on this website in another review!)
She did try to speak several times but all I heard was muffled sounds. Afterwards, I found out that she wanted me to scratch an itch her nose. It was driving her crazy the whole time she was locked down! _Evil Grin_