What a wonderful item. I ordered the xtra large version and my lover and I have been fighting over who gets to wear it ever eince. I love the weight and how easily it slides in. I would have given it 5 stars but it is so easy to wear for extended periods, that sometimes I forget I have it inserted. I wish they would make an xtra-xtra large version. Something with a more bulbous tip and a thicker shaft. All in all, a very nice item that's well worth the price.