This has to be the best harness that was ever made. My partner bought it because he thought that I was doing one of our friends. He had a remote controlled vibrating butt plub and would give me an enormous sensation whenever he did not like my answer to his questions and suggestions. I would be walking across the room when the viberation would come. WOW. too bad that there is no way to add a remote evflater to the plug that would be the latest enjoyment a man could have .