When the wife brought this one home, I looked at it and said way to big. One night after she used some of the other dildos in the harness, I said okay lets try the Universe. She harnessed it up.With alot of lube she got the tip in .Slowly she worked it in one inch at a time. She couldn't get the last two inches in . I really wanted the whole thing in . I put my legs over my head and told her to push until it was all the way in . The girth was amazing, I let her pound me for hours every position . This is my new favrite