So my husband and I purchased this while he was gone fore two months. So I had to wait to even get to try it. Then when he came home he decided he liked making me wait. So a week before he deployed to Iraq he pulled out the hook. OMG. I loved it. He would pull on the hook everytime I was not taking his dick into my mouth as deep as he wanted. The ball (which looks gigantic) fills my ass completely. It hurts at first then as the tugging starts its a true turn on. I love this and can NOT wait for him to return from Iraq so that we can put it to use more often.