This is the best thing ever, I hope who ever designed this is a millionaire! I have not been wearing mine that long, but it is very comfortable to wear and I love the fact of knowing that my mistress holds the key and can control me and any of my pleasure. Now knowing that I am truly controlled by her help to keep me in my submissive ways (like I should be) I was very afraid before I purchased it that I would not be able to handle it but I hardly even know that I have it on. I am hoping that when she does finally allow me to orgasm that it will just make our time that much better