This is wonderful, first off, it's just the right size, as in just big enough to have to work to get it in. I would like a slightly smaller end so that it is more secure. the extreme anal jewelry is much better at keeping place with out the need of worring about slippage. but the size is much better on this. I like it. feels really full once it pops in it reminded me of a dick head poping in for the first time.