I have been into anal play for quite some time before realizing that "I" was the one that wanted my ass fucked and not the other way around. My wife and I had purchased "The Hand" after she fisted me once but wasn't really that into it. This thing is big, so go slow. It says it's 3 inches at its widest point ... that means 10 1/2" in circumference. Her hand is only 8 1/4 inches in a fist position. Needless to say, last night (really early this morning) after 2-3 weeks at working at it ... I've finally concord this beast! I think a couple more tries and I'll be ready to step up to "The Fist" (slightly larger). Although "The Fist" is a little larger, I think it may end up being a little more comfortable when inserted as it is more of a large ball rather than a tall funnel. We will just have to wait and see!!
I recommend this toy to anyone who is into self anal stretching and just loves to push their own limits.