This device is so good! I have never had an orgasm before and this is the closest I have ever gotten! If you want to use it to play a little bit, you can hold it tight over your clit and let the vibrations take you where they will. I am planning a trial run tomorrow and am going to wear it under some tight jeans and a long shirt (just incase). You do need some really tight underwear in order to wear it out because that is the only thing really holding it in place but over all I would say it is great. Wish me luck because I know I am going to have a good time and I dont want to get caught!